Swedish school bans ‘him’ and ‘her’ in bid to stop children falling into gender stereotypes

A pre-school in Sweden has decided to stop calling children ‘him’ or ‘her’ in a bid to avoid gender stereotypes.

The Egalia preschool, in the Sodermalm district of Stockholm, has made the decision as part of the country efforts to engineer equality between the sexes from childhood.

As well as the decision to stop using the words, the taxpayer-funded school also carefully plans the colour and placement of toys and the choice of books to assure they do not fall into stereotypes.

Equality for all: Children at the Egalia preschool, in the Sodermalm district of Stockholm, play with neutral toys as part of the school's 'genderless' agendaEquality for all: Children at the Egalia preschool, in the Sodermalm district of Stockholm, play with neutral toys as part of the school’s ‘genderless’ agenda

The school opened last year and is on a mission to break down gender roles – a core mission in the national curriculum for Swedish pre-schools.

The option to implement the rules is underpinned by a theory that society gives boys an unfair edge.

‘Society expects girls to be girlie, nice and pretty and boys to be manly, rough and outgoing,’ says Jenny Johnsson, a 31-year-old teacher. 

‘Egalia gives them a fantastic opportunity to be whoever they want to be.’

At the school, boys and girls play together with a toy kitchen, waving plastic utensils and pretending to cook. One boy hides inside the toy stove, his head popping out through a hole.

Director: Lotta Rajalin says the staff try to help the children discover new ideas when they playDirector: Lotta Rajalin says the staff try to help the children discover new ideas when they play

Lego bricks and other building blocks are intentionally placed next to the kitchen, to make sure the children draw no mental barriers between cooking and construction.

Meanwhile, nearly all the children’s books deal with homosexual couples, single parents or adopted children. There are no ‘Snow White,’ ‘Cinderella’ or other fairy tales.

Director Lotta Rajalin notes that Egalia places a special emphasis on fostering an environment tolerant of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. 

Rajalin says the staff also try to help the children discover new ideas when they play.

‘A concrete example could be when they’re playing ‘house’ and the role of the mom already is taken and they start to squabble,’ she says. ‘Then we suggest two moms or three moms and so on.’

Egalia’s methods are controversial, with Rajalin claiming the staff have received threats from racists apparently upset about the preschool’s use of black dolls.

But she says that there’s a long waiting list for admission, and that only one couple has pulled a child out of the school.

Jukka Korpi, 44, says he and his wife chose Egalia ‘to give our children all the possibilities based on who they are and not on their gender.’

Staff at the school try to shed masculine and feminine references from their speech, including the pronouns him or her – ‘han’ or ‘hon’ in Swedish. Instead, they’ve have adopted the genderless ‘hen’.

Making their own decisions: The school carefully plans the colour and placement of toys to assure they do not fall into stereotypesMaking their own decisions: The school carefully plans the colour and placement of toys to assure they do not fall into stereotypes

‘We use the word “Hen” for example when a doctor, police, electrician or plumber or such is coming to the kindergarten,’ Rajalin says. 

‘We don’t know if it’s a he or a she so we just say “Hen is coming around 2pm”; then the children can imagine both a man or a woman. This widens their view.’ 

Jay Belsky, a child psychologist at the University of California, Davis, said he’s not aware of any other school like Egalia, and he questioned whether it was the right way to go. 

‘The kind of things that boys like to do – run around and turn sticks into swords – will soon be disapproved of,’ he said. 

‘So gender neutrality at its worst is emasculating maleness.’

Source: dailymail.co.uk

7 thoughts on “Swedish school bans ‘him’ and ‘her’ in bid to stop children falling into gender stereotypes

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  2. What happens when the children, sorry “hens” use their gender instinct to gravitate to appropriate playthings, do you force them not to? do you “re-educate” them as part of your social experiment? are you going to change history as well to reinforce your viewpoint ? 1938 anyone!

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  4. This is literally the dumbest shit ever. I lived in Sweden last year, and the gender roles there are reversed. Swedish men have become such wimps, and I am sorry to offend, but really when you don’t even open a door for a woman, you show no real courtship, why should anyone be getting married. This is part of the reason the Swedish birth rate is absolutely awful. I hate to say this, but I do not know if Sweden is going to be Swedish in the next decade because they have taken the liberal left politics way too far. This is just like that Portlandia skit at women and women first bookstore when they pick on feminists by saying “I don’t see gender”, but in America that is a joke not a legitimate protocol for schools or politics haha! What is going on in dear old Sweden, the land that used to be so great.

    • Socialism doesn’t work. On the surface it’s all peaches and cream…but dig a little deeper and it’s the Soviet all over again minus the violence/bloodshed/starvation.

  5. The Swedish propaganda is – one must say-very,very clever.Swedes today are to a large extent so called Pavlovian wetware-software-programmes running on autopilot.It will not be long before the swedish identity and thus the concept of Sweden is erradicated.Laws have already been put to place to effectivelly discriminate swedish workers so called ethnical swedes.The Swedish Goverment is pushing very hard to alienate the Swedes.These so called Goverments are actually launching genocidal campaigns against its own population.

  6. As I see Sweden will be the first country of the world which commits voluntary suicide. It’s a pity, anyway.

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